Worried

Dear Prudie,

I have been in a relationship for the past almost 19 months with a great guy. He is, in my opinion, smart, kind, handsome, adventurous, funny and full of surprises. He is somewhat socially awkward, but that's getting better. He has some undesirable habits, to be sure, but I assume that's to be expected in every guy, right?

Here's my problem: I am worried he only loves me for my breasts. At the beginning of our relationship, I gave him unfettered access to them. It seemed like he wanted them every 20 minutes, but I was ok with that. I know it's important to be accommodating in the beginning, and I figured when we'd been together awhile, his interest would taper off. He'd see there was a whole world out there besides my breasts, and I imagined that we'd explore it together.

Prudie, this has not happened! He is as obsessed as he was in the beginning. He wants them all the time: to go to sleep, when he wakes up, when he's fallen down, when he's bored, when I leave the room, when I come back in. I'm starting to think he really only wants to be around me for them. Sure, I get some kisses and hugs and smiles, but even then they seem like a means to an end. I can appreciate that he thinks they're great, but, well, no one wants to be loved for just their breasts. Do you have any advice for me?

Signed,

Hidden Under Two Layers of Clothing